It has been 6 months since the breakup.
Well, yes, she didn't block me on Telegram but she also hasn't texted me back either.
Nonetheless, I have decided to wait until June 2024 and I intend to follow through.
C said that she is stubborn, but she didn't know that I can stubborn too~ =p
So... why am I still waiting?
人生没有重来，有时候一旦错过了就回不去了。
We only live once and there is no repeat. Sometimes when you miss each other, it's for life and there might be no going back.
While that might be true, how am I so sure that she is the one?
I think this is something I have discussed before.
I will never know with 100% certainty that she is the one, at least not now. However, she has exhibited many many signs that I would be happy spending the rest of my life with her. Her devotion to the people she love (be it family or friends), the strong emotional connection we have, the intellectual discussions we have, her strong sense of responsibility, her willingness to have tough conversations & her willingness to work through things in a relationship.
The other thing is about knowing what you want, and C has certainly attained and gone beyond the basic benchmark of what I want in a partner. Shan't elaborate further since my previous post below has already explained in detail.
In essence, I am choosing to wait so that I can 给自己一个交代。Regardless of what happens, come June next year, I can safely tell myself that I have really tried my best and there is no regret.
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